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PERFECTLY FRANK...
As seen in the March 2000 Issue. Reprinted By Permission Coach and
Athletic Director
Coaches come and coaches go and you remember them mostly for their X's and
O's, and sometimes, if you get close enough, for qualities that transcend
the arena.
That' s how we remember Frank McGuire. It really started the year after his
North Carolina team won the NCAA championship (1957). We were in Chapel Hill
on business, and Frank invited us to his home for lunch.
There were just the four of us: Frank, his wife, their little boy, and us.
His son had been born with cerebral palsy, but he sat quietly in his chair
alongside of us, apparently oblivious of everything around him…until we
opened a magazine to check out a point with Frank.
The movement appeared to agitate the boy. He began making gurgling sounds
and then suddenly flung an arm out at us, knocking the magazine out of our
hands.It shocked us and we looked over at Frank for help. He was smiling. He
reached over and patted the boy gently on the head.“ "Frankie can't read," he told us. "But he likes pictures. That's why he
reached for the magazine. He wanted to see the pictures."
We looked at Frank and his wife and we marveled at the gentleness and love
we saw. We picked up the magazine and moved closer to the boy and started
turning the pages to let Frankie see the pictures.
Frank told us that everyone had questioned him about trying to raise the boy
at home. They told him that the boy would be better off at an institution,
especially as he aged.
" We considered it," Frank said. "But every time we would visit one of those
places, we would look at all those poor little lost kids and know we could
never let go of Frankie. I would give him the care he would need."
And so the McGuire's brought up their son until he needed the kind of help
they could no longer provide.
Our visit taught us much about Frank McGuire, the man. And we went on to
learn all about his incredible generosity to his friends, players, and
family.
We have always wondered how many people were aware of the relationship he
had with the quiet, grey-haired man who always sat beside him on the bench
during McGuire' s entire coaching career. His name was Buck Freeman. He had
coached Frank at St. John's and before that he had coached maybe the
greatest basketball team in the country-the St. John's Wonder Team of the
late 1920's that later became the Brooklyn Jewels, the greatest professional
team in the east.
Buck coached the Jewels throughout the '30s and then dropped out of sight.
Always a heavy drinker, he had become an alcoholic, and it was Frank McGuire
who eventually rescued him from the gutter. Frank made him his top assistant
and watched over him for the rest of his life.
It wasn't always easy. Buck would have his bad times and Frank would have to
seek him out, dry him out, and work him back into the line-up.
That was the pattern of their relationship until the day Buck died. It
worked because of Buck's genius and his understanding of himself.
He always knew that if you have one friend like Frank McGuire, you'd never
have to worry about where your next meal, next set of clothes, next pillow
on which to lay your head, and the next warm, encouraging word would come
from.
Frank McGuire won a lot of big ones in his time, including conference
titles, the NCAA championship, coaching in the NBA, Coach of the Year
honors, writing books, and the Basketball Hall of Fame.
And wherever he is now-and the odds are 10,000 to 1 that it's somewhere
Upstairs-he' d be delighted to know that his winning streak is still going
strong.
The people who knew him best have established the perfect monument to him.
It is called the Frank McGuire Foundation, and it is dedicated not to the
big winners, but to the high school coaches in his beloved New York and
metropolitan area who have had the greatest impact on young people's lives.
Nobody gets a trophy, a plaque, or a loving cup. The proceeds from the
annual dinner go right into the athletic programs of the winners' schools.
The millennium has arrived - in more ways than one. |